I
was raised Catholic and studied in a Catholic school. I grew up
believing that the only true faith was the one I had and everybody else
will go to hell. Obviously, I did not have friends then from other
religions. Well, it was hard to have non-Catholic friends because I was
in Manila (the most powerful territory of the Catholic Church) and
because of what I thought was the truth.
Long
before I graduated from high school, I accepted myself as a gay man. I
was tortured for not denying what I was so I completely detested this
church.
Then
I started going to the University of the Philippines in Quezon City and
all of a sudden, I was surrounded by people from different
faiths--Protestants, Jehovah's Witnesses, Wiccans, Muslims, atheists and
agnostics! Some people thought that nothing of this religous brouhaha
existed...I actually loved it and developed friendships with other
non-Catholic Christians but I still kept my guard up for Muslims and
Wiccans.
Being
the adventurous me, I moved to Bangkok and made meaningful
relationships with Buddhists and a lot of non-believers (they don't call
it "Sin City" for nothing!).
Being
the adventurous me AGAIN, I moved to Adelaide and was able to get to
know the faces of multi-culturalism and pluralism. I began liking people
for what they are and I am not really mindful anymore if they believe
in Jesus, if they are Muslims, if they are former Muslims, if they are
humanists, etc. I do not even mind it if they think that me subscribing
to no organized religion is crazy.
I
have neither been a Catholic nor a Christian for more than a decade and
the longer I am this way, the more I accepting I become of other people
despite their faith or religion. And I am happier.